At some point we have to deal with what's real.

At some point we have to deal with the inside. At some point we have to deal with what's real. We have to stop over focussing on what we are doing or not doing.  We have to go inward to see the truth.  We are not defined by what we do, BUT make no mistake about it - what we do is telling of what's going on inside.  If you see the need to make some changes in your actions start by looking at the "why" not the "what".